There is nothing inherently wrong with being friendly or kind to someone. It is a valuable trait that we admire, but it can also be something we do to avoid disappointing others or perhaps, pressuring ourselves to live up to an ideal image.
Most people who like to please others consciously choose to do this because they are afraid of upsetting others. As much as it is an excellent way to avoid conflict, it will leave you feeling drained and sad in the long run… Click here to read the full post.
